Why Families Fail to Recognize the Genius Among Them?

Genius represents the highest level of human intelligence and creativity. It is not just about having a high IQ but also being productive, innovative, and creating works that leave a mark on society. Around us, artists, writers, musicians, painters, sculptors, and scientists emerge. Unfortunately, often their value is recognized by strangers while their closest family members fail to see it.

While outsiders make great efforts to take a photo with an artist, the same artist's spouse or children may neglect to say a heartfelt 'We are proud of you.' Yet sometimes a few kind words are more valuable than the biggest award. A person who appears on a TV show, gives a successful concert, or creates an important work often does not hear supportive sentences like 'You were very successful' or 'You made us proud' from their family. Success gradually becomes seen as ordinary.

However, every person, especially from their family, wants to be appreciated. A few kind words from a spouse, children, or parents give them the strength to produce new works. Talent that is not appreciated may eventually withdraw into itself. This is why many families cannot recognize the genius among them. Geniuses grow not only with big awards but also with love, attention, and appreciation.

A memory shared by our scientist Aziz Sancar summarizes this well. After receiving one of the world's most prestigious awards, his wife asked him to do a daily household chore, showing how achievements can sometimes be taken for granted within the family. Artists, scientists, writers, and those who touch hearts may be seen only as a spouse, mother, father, or child in their families. Yet their successes add value not only to themselves but also to our country.

Unfortunately, in our country, people sometimes fail to see the talent in their own family while praising others' achievements at length. We should first appreciate the value within our home. Let us turn our eyes to our families. Let us support the talents, artists, scientists, and productive people in our homes. Let us speak kind words and appreciate their efforts. Because a supported person produces more, works harder, and touches more hearts. Rahşan Ecevit's support for her husband is an example for all of us: during the martial law years, she provided both moral and material support by publishing magazines and preparing products bearing his name.